I just saw the movie "Soul Surfer" the movie about a surfer who was seriously maimed by a shark. Her arm had to be removed completely. In my opinion the movie went too quickly into the character,Bethany's, recovery process. However, it showed the importance of a good attitude and supportive friends & family. Often people are stuck in the initial "why me" stage and very slowly move beyond that. That does not have to be the case.