Yesterday I went to the Kutztown Folk Festival and a lady who went saw me transfer in and out and in and out of the car into my manual wheelchair. She watched what I did and said a few times that she was amazed with me. She was not fake when she said it or when she talked to me. I felt really good about how she reacted. I don't think about that when I do it, I just do it and usually feel badly about how long I'm holding up the other people in the car. Mostly I'm listening to my Dad swear about having to wait and then I let my Mom lift me which is awful for both of us.